Some other approaches, depending how you want to organize your legend (or if you want any at all):
library(tidyverse)
library(gapminder)
gapminder %>%
filter(country %in% c("Norway", "Sweden", "Finland")) %>%
ggplot(aes(x = year, y = lifeExp, color = country, size = country == "Sweden", shape = country == "Sweden")) +
geom_point() +
scale_color_discrete(name = "Country") +
scale_shape_discrete(guide = FALSE) +
scale_size_discrete(guide = FALSE)
#> Warning: Using size for a discrete variable is not advised.

gapminder %>%
filter(country %in% c("Norway", "Sweden", "Finland")) %>%
mutate(country = if_else(country == "Sweden", "Sweden", "Other")) %>%
ggplot(aes(x = year, y = lifeExp, color = country, size = country, shape = country)) +
geom_point() +
scale_color_discrete(name = "Country") +
scale_shape_discrete(name = "Country") +
scale_size_discrete(name = "Country")
#> Warning: Using size for a discrete variable is not advised.

Created on 2020-07-02 by the reprex package (v0.3.0)