Could you please turn this into a self-contained reprex (short for reproducible example)? It would be helpful to see this both with and without the weights.
It will help us help you if we can be sure we're all working with/looking at the same stuff.
Right now the best way to install reprex is:
# install.packages("devtools")
devtools::install_github("tidyverse/reprex")
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What to do if you run into clipboard problems
If you run into problems with access to your clipboard, you can specify an outfile for the reprex, and then copy and paste the contents into the forum.
reprex::reprex(input = "fruits_stringdist.R", outfile = "fruits_stringdist.md")
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